Imagine this: you’re strolling through Wal-Mart, surrounded by the tunes of the 80s echoing through the store. Among them, a song strikes a chord within you, resonating as if the lyrics were tailored just for you. This moment of introspection prompts a deep dive into the essence of your relationship. You reminisce about how it all began – the initial spark, the blossoming love, and how your lives intertwined. Over three years have passed since then, and the words “I love you” have become a daily ritual, affirming the depth of your emotions. Yet, beyond these words lies a truth – your most cherished dreams have yet to materialize.
The journey has been long and arduous, marked by milestones such as graduation and finding stable employment. These significant achievements were initially stumbling blocks, postponing conversations about your shared future. But here you both stand, having conquered the short-term goals that once stood in your way. The question now arises – what comes next? Have you contemplated the path that lies ahead? Whenever discussions about your future arise, a sense of discomfort pervades the air, and the topic swiftly veers off course. It leaves you pondering – are you drifting apart? Is it mere imagination?
As a child, your dreams aligned with the archetypal American woman’s path – a loving partner, a cozy home, and cherished children. However, the reality of your life seems to center mainly around the daily grind of a 9-to-5 routine. Don’t misunderstand; achieving your degree and securing a fulfilling job were substantial accomplishments. Yet, as time passes, you yearn for more. You long to understand your partner’s aspirations for the days to come. Are you destined to be mere roommates, both absorbed in your careers? Or perhaps, a full-time homemaker and mother? Could there be a middle ground? It is imperative to determine whether your desires for the future align, and whether a shared path still promises happiness and fulfillment.
In all honesty, the present state of your relationship feels unsustainable. It’s akin to being stuck in a car with the gears refusing to shift, the vehicle motionless. As the days pass with you away, a void permeates the apartment, growing ever more palpable. Thus, a decision must be made – once you return, a serious conversation about the future awaits. Just as the song alluded to, it is time to delve within, courageously facing whatever truths we may uncover. We must embark on a soul-searching journey, together.
In the interim, I have sought solace in the comforting company of Susan, as the walls of our home felt increasingly stifling without you. When you stumble upon this letter, reach out to me, and let’s embark on a profound discussion about the path we should, or perhaps should not, tread going forward.
Remember, our relationship journey is a shared one – let’s reflect on where we’ve been and envision the road that lies ahead.